{"id":11378,"date":"2023-09-21T08:00:57","date_gmt":"2023-09-21T08:00:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sites.reading.ac.uk\/connected\/?p=11378"},"modified":"2023-09-21T12:56:35","modified_gmt":"2023-09-21T12:56:35","slug":"love-at-first-lecture","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sites.reading.ac.uk\/connected\/2023\/09\/21\/love-at-first-lecture\/","title":{"rendered":"Love At First Lecture"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

The first day of lectures can be daunting for some but not for our alumni couple, Ed Church and Andr\u00e9e Payne, who proved that arriving early for class can change your life.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"EdEd shares with CONNECTED his memories of meeting his now wife, Andr\u00e9e, on the first day of their MSc in Wildlife Management and Conservation<\/a> course almost a decade ago.<\/p>\n

Ed said: \u201cI met Andr\u00e9e on our first day back in October 2013. I went to sit on my own, in the middle row of the Harborne Lecture Theatre, behind some other students who had also arrived early.<\/p>\n

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\u201cHaving nervously introduced myself to my new peers, I couldn\u2019t help but notice that one had an interesting accent. Upon further chatting, I found out that Andr\u00e9e was an international student from Canada on a temporary student visa.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Ed admits that he didn\u2019t feel as relaxed as he appeared.

He explained: “I was trying to play it cool and act relaxed, but inside I was of course nervous. Looking back, a key thing to remember is that nearly all the people you meet will be in very similar circumstances and plucking up the courage for a friendly introduction and chat can make all the difference on your first day.”<\/p>\n

A lasting impression<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Ed decided to attempt to make an impression on Andr\u00e9e, but it turned out to be Andr\u00e9e who made the impression on him.<\/p>\n

He said: \u201cTrying to be funny, I asked \u2019Do you know Justin Bieber?\u2019 Without hesitation she clapped back \u2019Do you know Prince Harry?\u2019 giving the other students within earshot a giggle at my expense. She was quick, fiery and intimidatingly beautiful.\u201d<\/p>\n

Little did Ed know that Andr\u00e9e was also putting on a cool front.<\/p>\n

She said:<\/p>\n

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“It makes me laugh that Ed thought I was full of confidence on our first day because in reality it was the complete opposite! I was more than a little out of my comfort zone – having recently moved to a new university and country, and not knowing a single person this side of the Atlantic.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

\"AndreeAs the weeks went by and the pair continued attending lectures, supporting the finances of\u00a0the\u00a0Student\u2019s Union and holding intellectual seminars in Park Bar, they got to know each other more. In January 2014 they began \u2018officially\u2019 dating and decided to continue an academic relationship by working on their thesis together over the summer.<\/p>\n

Ed said: \u201cIt was a truly happy and exciting time, to be young and in love.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sadly, as the end of the academic year loomed, the couple had to acknowledge Andr\u00e9e\u2019s inevitable departure.<\/p>\n

Ed explained: \u201cHer temporary student visa was coming to an end and she wasn\u2019t allowed to stay. A long distance relationship was an option, but what was the end game?<\/p>\n

\u201cStanding just before security at Heathrow departures, Andr\u00e9e assured me that she would do all that she could to return to the UK. I was understandably sad when she left. I knew it would be very difficult and costly to secure another UK visa, let alone actually go through the process of picking up and moving one\u2019s life to another country. I feared that once home in Canada, the burden of returning to the UK would be too great.\u201d<\/p>\n

Fast forward <\/strong><\/h4>\n

\"EdThankfully their journey did not end there. In December 2014, much to Ed’s great happiness, Andr\u00e9e returned on a new visa with her life packed into two suitcases.
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Ed said: \u201cThe embrace when we reunited at Heathrow arrivals will stay with me for the rest of my life. Only a few months before I had let go of her hand and expected never to see her again; but now here she was, wrapped tightly in my arms.\u201d<\/p>\n

\"EdFast forward to more recent times, the couple married \u2013 after multiple COVID related\u00a0postponements \u2013 in 2021. They now have a home in rural Oxfordshire and Andr\u00e9e has been awarded British citizenship. They are putting their MSc in Wildlife Management and Conservation to good use and both have established careers in the environmental sector. In November 2022 they\u00a0 welcomed their first daughter, Elodie.<\/p>\n

Ed said: \u201cWe both look back fondly at our time at the University of Reading and often joke that Andr\u00e9e\u2019s year abroad to study really got out of hand.\u201d<\/p>\n

Andr\u00e9e added:<\/p>\n

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\u201cThank goodness I chose to study at Reading otherwise this story would have had a very different ending!”<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Do you have a memorable experience from your first lecture at the University of Reading or did you find love at Reading? Share your story<\/a> with us.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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